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When “Calling the Lady” Stops Being a Promise
In Black culture, “calling the Lady” is something some Black men say when a relationship is on the brink of ending. It’s presented as an attempt to save the relationship—a promise of growth, change, or accountability. But more often than not, it remains just that: a promise. One that isn’t always followed by real action or sustained effort. Among Black women, “the Lady” has become an inside joke. Not because therapy itself is humorous, but because we’ve seen how easily it’s o
Jan 264 min read


Unmarried & Childless in My 30s: My Thoughts on Motherhood & Marriage ft. Franchesca Gipson
Leaving the club with my friends, we were struggling to make it back to the car with aching feet when a couple of guys we knew walked...
Mar 31, 20254 min read


Solo Dating While in a Relationship: A Non-Negotiable for Me
I want to talk about solo dating while in a relationship and why I believe in it. It is a concept that can be misunderstood and even...
Feb 23, 20253 min read


A Cozy Start to 2025: Why I’m Easing In and Embracing Slow Living
Well, hello, and Happy New Year! I’m writing this from the comfort of my couch, binge-watching 9-1-1 while clutching my Mucinex and...
Jan 11, 20254 min read
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